Quick update for journal-y things: I've decided that my main journal presence will be on IJ, not LJ, so if anyone has the LJ one friended you can take it off. I'll post there once more with a similar message. If anyone is reading just LJ and is still interested in my Real Life issues, please let me know as I have something important to tell you.
For those reading at IJ, I will probably be creating a real life filter here like I used to have, but not everyone will be on it by default - it's opt in only. I have absolutely no problem with people who just want to read fic and recs and fandom related stuff, so please don't think you're insulting me if you don't want real life - my real life is messy and I know it.
As before, anyone can ask to get off the filter at any time, no questions asked and no hard feelings. Life is too short for drama.
That said, anyone who wants on pls to be commenting thx. :)